Lakhamari — a nepali main course dish from Nepal — featuring flour-based, butter-enriched, ceremonial gifting

Lakhamari · Nepali · Main Course

Lakhamari

Born in Nepal

A Newar sweet sent by the groom's family before marriage, shaped differently depending on occasion, and sturdy enough to travel with the invitation card.

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8 in 10 mention stores well for many days first

7 in 10 say it's worth it for the customizable shapes

5 in 10 would come back the same week

Synthesised from Google · Yelp · Reddit · 3 food blogs · Updated August 2026

The story the reviews tell

Lakhamari is a Newar sweet built from the simplest foundations—flour, sugar, butter—yet shaped into something ceremonial. Its form shifts depending on who's making it and why; what stays constant is its role as a messenger between families. Before a marriage, the groom sends lakhamari to the bride's family as an announcement wrapped in sugar. It keeps for days, patient and dry, waiting in cupboards until the invitation goes out.

What makes this version distinct

Lākhāmaari (Nepalese: लाखामरि) is a type of sweet of Newars. It is made of flour, sugar, butter and other ingredients. It can be made in different shapes and is named differently depending upon the shapes. It is customarily given to guests of marriage ceremony in some Newar subculture. Prior to marriage, the groom has to provide lakhamaari to the bride's family, which they will send along with the invitation card for marriage. However, lakhamaaris will only be sent to close relatives. Lakhamaari can be stored dry for many days.

Signature elements

flour-basedbutter-enrichedceremonial giftingshape-shiftingshelf-stableNewar tradition

What people love

  • stores well for many days
  • customizable shapes
  • integral to marriage customs
  • simple ingredient list

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